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The grief exception revealed something that the authors of the DSM--the distillation of mainstream psychiatric thinking--were deeply uncomfortable with. They had been forced to admit, in their own official manual, that it's reasonable--and perhaps even necessary--to show the symptoms of depression, in one set of circumstances. But once you've conceded that,4 it invites an obvious follow-up question. Why is a death the only event that can happen in life where depression is a reasonable response? Why not if your husband has left you after thirty years of marriage? Why not if you are trapped for the next thirty years in a meaningless job you hate? Why not if you have ended up homeless and you are living under a bridge? If it's reasonable in one set of circumstances, could there also be other circumstances where it is also reasonable?